Anxiety before bed may lead to inability to fall asleep (especially in your child’s own bed!) that then leads
to a sleepy anxious child by day (doesn’t want to go to school). Sound familiar?
Disrupted sleep or changes in sleep occur in depression and manic depressive bipolar illness as well as may lead someone
in to these states. Extreme sleep deprivation shows that people suffer from hallucinations, paranoia,
and false beliefs (delusions). They actually look Schizophrenic!
Medical concerns associated with sleep debt are: seizures, metabolic imbalances including
elevations in serum lipids and the stress hormone Cortisol, weight gain, diabetes, growth problems, weakened immune systems,
high blood pressure, and memory decline with heightened chances of dementia later in life. Did I leave
out car accidents?
Children and teens require 8-10+ hours
of sleep per night depending on age and one's own variability. This means prioritizing bedtime and awakening
times then seeing how to fit in other activities around this. Awakening and bed times should vary by only one
hour on weekends as one cannot "catch up" on sleep debt.
Melatonin is a hormone
every animal (with a backbone) makes in the brain. This hormone tells animals what to do when the sun comes up and when
the sun goes down. Some sleep specialists have suggested adolescents take 500 mg of Melatonin on Sunday nights as many
have overslept on the weekends, further disrupting their sleep cycles. Melatonin should not be taken in people with
immune deficiency problems or an allergy to the supplement.
Staring at a computer screen or being in a brightly lit room before bed sends a message to the brain, "Do not increase
your Melatonin yet-it's still daytime!" Turn off the computer at least an hour before bedtime.
If that is not enough to calm your child's brain, back up by 15 minute increments until finding the appropriate "dose"
allowed. Homework on the computer may be done first to minimize exposure.
Eliminate caffeine after noon or altogether if necessary.
Be aware of hidden sources of caffeine, even in those "decaffeinated" beverages. Is your teen smoking cigarettes
or using drugs that impair sleep? Random drug screens may explain why the teen has had a change in sleep.
Make sure your child is not starving before bed. Children taking medication for ADHD are not hungry
during the day. When the meds wear off; they are ravenous, grazing the kitchen when they should be sleeping. A
protein type of pre-bed snack will keep up the blood sugar for longer periods than a quick fix carbohydrate.
Exercise from play or a structured
sport allows children to blow off steam and sleep better.
Addressing health issues like allergies, asthma, enlarged tonsils and adenoids crucial in order to get enough
oxygen at night to sleep deeply can help. Other health imbalances that disrupt sleep should be evaluated for a resolution.
A change in sleep patterns in a child with
a neuropsychiatric disorder, like depression or epilepsy, (to mention only 2 of many) may announce that deterioration is coming,
so see the doc to prevent this.
Be cautious of some over-the-counter and prescription sleep medications as "rebound" insomnia may
occur after only a few days use, making the problem worse. Other problems that might arise with medications are difficulty
awakening, concentrating, learning impairment the next day, getting into car accidents with our newest drivers, physical or
psychological reliance, and amnesia to bizarre behaviors done in sleep. Of course, there may be circumstances that warrant
a trial of medication but it is much better to try the nonmedical approaches first.
The nonmedical treatments do require time, practice, and commitment to follow
through.
Relaxation
techniques like guided imagery, soothing music, "white noise," and hypnotherapy to learn self-hypnosis
are all effective techniques. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy can provide your child with tools
he/she can carry into adolescence, college and then adulthood.
When your child awakens on his/her own or with minimal difficulty, you've made it!
Good luck and sweet dreams.